What do all of the following statements have in common? Wife to Overweight Husband: Are you sure you want to eat that second piece of cake? Mom to Teenage Son: I don’t think you want to wear those stained pants… for the fifth day in a row. Father to daughter: You shouldn’t go to school […]
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Recently, a mom wrote to me regarding her overweight daughter. The following article addresses different ways to deal with the issue while preserving your relationship with your child and your child’s self esteem: Dear Heather, My 9 year old daughter has recently put on a lot of weight. Her clothes don’t fit properly and I’m
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In Part 1 we talked about why black-and-white thinking can be harmful. Part 2 focuses on how you can change old, unhealthy patterns of thinking to healthier, more rational ways. The first step to changing the way you think is to identify when black-and-white thoughts invade your mind. Dr. Phil says, “You can’t change what
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Black and white thinking, also called all-or-nothing thinking, is when an individual perceives situations, events or other people as either all good or all bad. Thinking in absolutes is a lose-lose situation. If one thinks of something as all good, they are bound to get let down and if they are thinking of something as
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Angie is angry with her boyfriend Eddie. They have been living together for 7 years and Eddie is a complete slob. While things have improved somewhat over the years, Eddie still leaves his dirty dishes on the table and his hobbies and projects strewn around the living room. He doesn’t properly close bread bags and
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